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Meaningful Support
Co-Regulation Reflection
Remember when you felt supported, not conceptually, but physically.
When this might help:
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You’ve forgotten what supported feels like in the body
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Before asking for support, to know what you’re asking for
The practice:
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“What helped my body feel supported?”
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“When did I soften without trying?”
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“What kind of presence do I most long for now?”
Gentle fallback: One remembered moment of softening around someone is the data.
Keep it with you:
print this tool as a card (PDF).
Audio guide: arriving with the book's launch.
Come back to this whenever you need it. Returning is the practice.