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Noticing the Repair
Track your resilience, not just your spirals.
When this might help:
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You’ve just returned from a spiral, however roughly
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You’re building evidence that your returns are changing
The practice:
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“What helped me return this time?”
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“What felt different, even slightly?”
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“Where did I offer myself softness?”
Gentle fallback: One question, one line, is enough.
Keep it with you:
print this tool as a card (PDF).
Audio guide: arriving with the book's launch.
Come back to this whenever you need it. Returning is the practice.