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Spiral Feedback Reflection
Track nervous system shifts without judgement.
When this might help:
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Just after a spiral, looking for the feedback instead of the failure
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You’re tempted to treat a wobble as proof of being broken
The practice:
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“How did I respond differently than I used to?”
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“What message might my system be sending me right now?”
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“What’s the feedback, not the failure?”
Gentle fallback: One question: “What’s the feedback, not the failure?”
Keep it with you:
print this tool as a card (PDF).
Audio guide: arriving with the book's launch.
Come back to this whenever you need it. Returning is the practice.